The no that changed everything
Turning down an expectation, a relationship or a role — and living with what came after.
I Was Nice Once is a podcast where women tell the stories behind their sweetest revenge, boldest refusals, and messiest attempts to take their power back, with Niika Briskin asking what happened next.
This is about women taking back their voice and reclaiming their power. Not just the triumphant moment, but the regret, consequences and complicated aftermath too.

Meet your host
A producer, presenter and investigative journalist who brings experience across film, television, live events and breakfast radio to the conversation.
Conversations Niika would love to have
Turning down an expectation, a relationship or a role — and living with what came after.
The satisfying comeback, the one that backfired, and whether getting even actually gave you peace.
Speaking up after being dismissed, silenced or told to be nice. What did it cost, and what did it change?
Leaving a job, friendship or relationship that no longer fit — even when starting again was messy.
People-pleasing, family expectations and the first time you stopped putting everyone else first.
The boundaries that held, the decisions you regret, and the version of yourself you are still becoming.
Guest enquiries
You don’t need a perfect ending. If you have a story about finding your voice, refusing to shrink or taking your power back, get in touch.
Enquire about being a guestniika@bruceandpablopictures.comYour name, a short outline of your story, the turning point, and what happened next. Mention anything you’d prefer not to discuss and the best way to contact you.
Keep your first email brief. Leave out sensitive documents and identifying details about other people. Only share what you’re comfortable discussing publicly.
Ask Niika about the recording format, timing, publication plans and any questions you have before deciding to take part.